Welcome
to Recovered
Codependents
Welcome to Recovered Codependents
Recovered Codependents (RC) is a fellowship of men and women who have found a better way of life, free from codependency. Our fellowship is based on a 12-step program of recovery – and if you wish to join us, we are here to share what we have found.
There are no dues or fees for membership; the only requirement for membership is a desire to stop engaging in codependent thinking and behavior. We are here to assist the next person seeking help with their own codependency.
Am I a chronic codependent?
Codependent thinking/behavior:
You obsess about people and relationships.
You try to control what others do or say.
You may engage in people-pleasing behaviors.
You may be pushy and demanding.
You take things personally and are concerned about self-image.
Normal people can moderate or stop their codependent thinking/behavior.
What we have tried:
Therapy. Willpower. Inner child work. Attachment styles. Love languages. Coaching. Medication. Seminars. Workshops. Podcasts. Gurus. Travel. Retreats. Self-help books. Journaling. Cutting people out of our lives. Swearing off relationships or romance entirely. Setting boundaries. Isolation. Self-care. Moving. Affirmations. New friends. New hobbies. Getting a new job. Support groups. Just saying no. Accountability buddies. EMDR. Hypnosis.
…and so on.
For us as chronic codependents, none of this worked.